`The Brief Encounter ~ an Imbalance

The short encounter – an Imbalance

Have you ever found yourself in a situation in which you are attracted to a person or an experience?  

You joyfully jump in ….  You put yourself “all in” to the new adventure.

As the adventure continues, 

you find that you are becoming more unbalanced. 

The adventure almost seems a cruel misadventure. 

You experience pain. You experience frustration. 

You feel as if you are facing a wall. 

The relationship or the event becomes unipolar. 

It is not the bidirectional flow of energy that you had hoped for … that will enable you to grow and prosper on your journey 

as you proceed to unveil your mission. 

Many seem to continue on this torturous path hoping that 

“shit will happen” … hoping, with a mistaken wish, that the other person or the event will change. 

Yes, Shit will happen … 

You will become more and more unbalanced and unhappy.

Abraham-Hicks shared on their blog this AM, an interesting perspective.

“… If things are going well for you,

then focusing on upon what is happening now will cause the well-being to continue,

but

if there are things happening now that are not pleasing.

You must find a way of taking your attention away from the unwanted things.

You have the ability to quickly change your patters of thought

And eventually … your life experience.”[i]

It is my experience that growth can happen even when the circumstances that facilitated the growth are a temporary distraction. In facilitating the experience for growth, 

I found that the person or event had created a contrast.  

The contrast set up by that short-lived event helped me clarify my mission, my path. 

The contrast places me at a pivot point. 

This pivot point provides both a opportunity to learn something about myself and to illuminate my path, 

and the mission that is mine.

So what seems tragic is not. The movement to balance myself, i.e. to be full of joy and excitement in sharing my mission, calls for action.

The First action, is moving away from the imbalanced relationship or event without judging either. If the imbalance is a person, God or Source Energy will provide what that person needs for themselves  .. likely without you but as they say “the world continues to spin. “

The Second action is to be open, to be vulnerable, to search for people and experiences that will help  you to be the creative artist that you are…. Joyfully so.

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[i] www.abraham-hicks.com