Sunday, December 28, 2025

Old Soul ? "Mono no Aware"

 Have you ever been told you are an old soul?

I have.


I took being called an old soul as complimentary …

Yet I didn’t phantom it’s implication.


what does "Old Soul" signify?

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

New Psychotherapy Bio @ Betterhelp

 I would appreciate any feedback on whether you like the old version or the new version.

Please send comments to rmfTop@gmail.com

Thank. you


My name is Ralph M Ferraro. Thank you for taking the time to explore my approach to psychotherapy.


From early on in my life I was fascinated by psychology … how do people make life choices ?  What makes people chose maladaptive patterns? The question, can a person change their life from negative patterns  to positive fulfilling behavior? How can people form positive relationships?


I spent my  grammar school in a catholic school. While in grammar school I was on the School Safety patrol to help children cross the street. I

 always volunteered for the four lane road four blocks from the school to help children and parents cross a high volume roadway.. 

During my youth their were many men and women who inspired me to serve others. 

As I got older I chose the field of social work, not to give people money but to help them gain control of their life and feel fulfillment.


 I worked my. way through  graduate school for a Masters degree in Clinical Social Work degree and an Advanced certificate in Clinical Social Work. I am licensed in New York with over 46 years of experience. I have helped clients as a therapist and as a mentor. 

I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, depression, management of anger and difficult emotions. Interestingly most problem areas centered not around intellect but around difficulty dealing with emotions.


I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings and history can be shared without fear of judgment. 


It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life. It  takes courage to explore the first steps towards change, toward growth. 


Thanks to developments in quantum psychology, I help a client understand 1) they are not a mistake,  2) they are not locked into behavior or experiences of the past 3) they can change to a more positive lifestyle. 


I am here to support & empower you in that journey. ~.

I specialize in helping  a client in the areas of  Breathing and meditation ~ nature walks and photography to help client makes changes in their life. I

I also employ techniques from Gottman about positive communication, team building vs destructive communication

 If a client is able to be open to spiritual dimension, I help them understand how to use spiritual energy (connection with the powers of the universe)


old version

Old


New. Week of 12/15/25 version #2


My name is Ralph M Ferraro.

From early on in my life I was fascinated by psychology … how do people make life choices ?  What makes people chose maladaptive patterns? The question of can a person change their life from negative to positive fulfilling behavior. How can people form positive relationships.


I spent my  grammar school in a catholic school. While in grammar schooI I was on the AA patrol to help children cross the street. I always volunteered for the four lane road four blocks from the school (Hempstead turnpike). During my youth tiheir were many men and women who inspired me to serve others. As I got older I chose the field of social work, not to give people money but to help them gain control of their life and feel fulfillment.


 I worked my. way through  graduate school for a Masters in Social Work degree and an Advanced certificate in Clinical Social Work/ I am licensed in New York with over 46 years of experience. I have helped clients as a therapist and as a mentor. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, depression, management of anger and difficult emotions. Interesting most problem areas centered not around intellect but around difficulty with emotional energy.


I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings and history can be shared without fear of judgment. 


It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life. It  takes courage to explore the first steps towards change, toward growth. 


Thanks to developments in quantum psychology, I help a client understand 1) they are not a mistake,  2) they are not locked into behavior or experiences of the past 3) they can change to a more positive lifestyle. 


I am here to support & empower the client in that journey. ~. Breathing and meditation ~ nature walks and photography to help client makes changes in their life. I help the client understanding how to use intellectual energies and emotional energies. depending on client need,


 If a client is able to be open to spiritual dimension, I help them understand how to use spiritual energy (connection with the powers of the universe)Old




Tuesday, December 2, 2025

A client said "Not everyone can be a therapist ....>"


Have you noticed there are a lot of places on the internet offering training to be some kind of fully credentialed therapist . Back in the day, mental health or addiction treatment centers were offered as part of a hospital system of care,


So what was my client talking about.