Valentines day is coming up.
What is the magic sauce?
What is the great gift of Valentines day?
The great gift is not in the store
or in the bakery.
It doesn’t have to be expensive
The great gift is being warm, being affectionate with the person that you love.
Ask yourself … Do I want to build a team with this person?
Can I give my vulnerability to this person?
Can I allow my feelings to softly touch this person?
Can I receive the love and warmth of this person?
A pastry or a flower could be a simple sign of your love or your caring
Are you willing to give to that person?
Ah but wait … In order to give the magic sauce,
you need to love yourself first.
You need to do some deep breaths. It is important to be comfortable in the silence, in the company of yourself.
You need to love yourself and be confident that you are valuable.
Enjoy the love of valentine day
Breathing, dealing with silence and affirming oneself are techniques I teach my clients @ Betterhelp
Additional Resources for couples:
5 Love Languages: secret to love that lasts. Chapman, Gary
4 Horsemen and their antidotes. w https://www.gottman.com/blog/category/column/the-four-horsemen/